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I started this blog around 2012 as a school project.

I had no brand strategy. No content plan. I certainly wasn’t thinking about what the site might become more than a decade later.

I just had things to say.

A lot has happened since then.

I’ve worked across different industries and organizations. I’ve led, learned, changed course, gotten things wrong, started again and spent a lot of time paying attention to people and what makes things work, or keeps them from working. 

Somewhere along the way, this little corner of the internet grew up with me.

Why I Write

I’m fascinated by people.

Why we resist changes we know we need.

Why capable people sometimes doubt themselves.

Why we stay too long, say yes when we mean no or make life harder trying to prove we can handle it.

I’m equally interested in what helps us move forward: curiosity, perspective, better questions, honest conversations and the occasional lesson that arrives when we weren’t looking for one.

That’s what I write about here.

You’ll find thoughts on leadership, work, organizational change, technology, careers, confidence, relationships, personal growth and whatever else life happens to teach me.

Some posts are practical.

Some tell a story.

Some are personal.

And my “Food for Thought Friday” posts give me permission to say a lot with very little:

Small sentences. Big Ideas.

Life and Work Have More in Common Than We Admit

Professionally, much of my work has centered on people, change and making organizations work better.

But people don’t stop being people when they walk into work.

We bring our experiences with us. Our confidence. Our doubts. Our habits. Our ambitions. The conversation we had before the meeting. The thing we’re worried about that no one else knows.

That’s why I don’t separate the personal from the professional too neatly here.

A workplace experience can teach us something about courage.

A family conversation can teach us something about leadership.

A career setback can change how we define success.

And sometimes an ordinary moment at an airport, in a car or sitting across from someone we love teaches us more than another book ever could.

Those lessons belong here too.

What I’ve Learned Along the Way

I don’t have a formula for a meaningful life.

I would be suspicious of anyone who said they did.

What I do have is experience, curiosity and a willingness to keep learning.

I’ve learned that changing your mind can be a sign of growth.

That being needed and being valued aren’t always the same.

That leadership shows up long before someone give you the title.

That technology can make us faster without necessarily making us wiser.

That some things we outgrow once served us well.

And that sometimes the question we need most is:

What am I missing because I’m too busy looking for the answer?

That’s the kind of thinking I want to explore here.

I won’t always have the answer. Neither will you.

Maybe that’s part of the point.

We can still pay attention. Ask better questions. Learn from one another. Change when change is needed and hold onto the things that remain worth keeping.

After all these years, that’s still why I write.

I’m glad you’re here.



3 responses to “About”

  1. George Avatar
    George

    Hi I stumbled upon your website by searching my wife’s name (Ramona Mills). I’ve spend some time reading your thoughts and must say I find it very appealing. Regards, George Mills. Pretoria, South Africa.

    1. Ramona Mills Avatar

      Hello George!

      Thank you for perusing my blog and sharing feedback. Please tell Ramona I said hello 🙂

  2. James Davis Avatar

    Thanks for this compilations of Truths:
    1) All that we are is the result of all that we have thought. The mind is everything. What we think, we become. Buddha

    2) Two are better than one because they have a good return for their work. If one falls down, his friend can help him up, but pity the man who falls alone. Ecclesiastes 4:9

    3) Never mistake knowledge for wisdom. One helps you make a living, the other helps you make a life.

    1-3 seem to be interconnected. Can we institutionalized this thought stream?
    James

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